Rabbi dating advice
Each partner in a marriage relationship must be sensitive and totally responsive to what the other partner needs, even when not asked or told – Rebecca, with those seven extra words proved to Eliezer that she was a woman suitable to enter the Household of Abraham, the ‘Man of Kindness’.Yours sincerely, Ari Lobel We respond to every follow-up question submitted, but only publish selected ones.
About your statement that you’ve always been attracted to non-Jewish men: Is it possible that you may have started dating non-Jews during your rebellious teenage years, to take a “stand” against your parents, and now that you’re an adult you simply are accustomed to being with men who are not Jewish?
Now if “Men are from Mars and women are from Venus”, then one has to think twice before they further complicate this ‘war’ between the sexes, by marrying someone who has been brought up in a completely different Jewish culture and thus will almost certainly have an entirely different way of relating to the world.
Now, what criteria did Eliezer use to find the right women?
When you know yourself, when you love yourself, then and only then, can you be with someone else. Do you have some great tips or advice about how to make a match online? Did you find your soul mate via the electronic matchmaker dating (aka internet dating)? Then, we can all learn from your experience and celebrate your success.
Answer: Abraham sends his servant Eliezer to find a wife for his son Issac (Genesis Ch 24).
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Arranged marriages go back in history as far back as the Torah.